My Personal Approach to Trauma Informed Wedding Photography

When most people think about wedding photography, they picture poses, lighting, and beautiful images. But for me, everything starts with something else first. Safety. Trust. Care.

Being trauma informed means I recognize that every person brings their own history, boundaries, and experiences into a space. Weddings are emotional, vulnerable days, and I approach them with the understanding that comfort and consent matter just as much as any photograph.

This is not just professional language for me. It is personal. I live with PTSD, depression, and anxiety, and I have experienced what it feels like to be unsafe and unheard. I know how powerful it is when someone listens, moves gently, and meets you where you are. That is the kind of presence I commit to bringing for every client.

Safety, Consent, and Communication

Your comfort is not optional. If you need a pause, we pause. If something does not feel right, we adjust. No explanation required.

I build this into my process from the very beginning. My planning questionnaires ask about mobility considerations for you and your loved ones. Throughout your session and wedding day, I check in, offer space to breathe, and adapt as needed. You will never be pushed past what feels good for you.

Accessibility in Practice

Accessibility is more than physical logistics, though I am always mindful of seating, terrain, and pacing. It also shows up in how I run my business.

I include alt text on posts and galleries. My website uses an accessibility plugin. I caption videos and spoken content. I do my best to avoid assumptions and ask thoughtful questions. Your voice and preferences are part of the process, not an afterthought.

Mental Health Advocacy Is Personal

Weddings can bring up big emotions, complicated family dynamics, and moments of overwhelm. I am there not just to document the day, but to help hold a calm, steady presence within it.

I am a photographer, yes. But I am also a human who cares immensely about how you feel while your memories are being made.

What This Means for You

If you value emotional awareness, clear communication, and feeling genuinely supported, we will likely work well together.

My goal is not only to create beautiful images. It is to make sure you feel comfortable, respected, and like yourself in front of the camera. Because that is what allows photographs to feel meaningful for years to come.

I follow trauma informed care principles outlined by SAMHSA and continue my education in this area. I am not a therapist, but I am committed to creating a photography experience where your wellbeing, voice, and boundaries are always honored.

You deserve to feel safe, seen, and cared for on your wedding day and every day.

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